How Narcissists Really Think

In a world full of different personalities, it’s essential that we have a full grasp on each one and how they can be positive or potentially harmful to our lives.
It’s easy to be naïve and think that everyone has good intentions, but in reality, a lot of people are looking out for themselves at all costs.

Take narcissism for example, at first glance, this personality seems harmless, they boast a lot in order to cover up the shame they feel about themselves, but when you dig deeper and realize the way they act and think, they can be very harmful.
With that said, learning about the traits of a narcissist will give you a deeper understanding of whether or not you can deal with them.

They Need to Feel Important: Everyone wants to feel needed in life, it can give us a sense of purpose. However, a narcissist will seek importance without working for it. It’s different than someone who is confident but does not feel the need to brag. Narcissistic people will want to be recognized as superior to others without even earning it. In an intimate relationship, this can be very harmful, especially when arguments and debates arise. For example, John believes that he is smarter than his wife and kids. So no matter what they accomplish, John will always remind them that they can never live up to his standards.
Consumed With Success: To get ahead in life, you need to have a certain degree of success. Sometimes we seek help from others that may be able to help us achieve that success. We don’t do it for praise or to brag that we’re on top, we seek help so we can move forward. A narcissist will only help if it benefits them. They are obsessed with being the best at everything, and they won’t help you if they feel that you are going to try and steal their spotlight.
Only Relates to “Special People”: Narcissistic people do not value you for who you are, but only on what you do. For example, a parent that is looking for a therapist for his/her children will only focus on the academic background and accomplishments of the individual. They will ignore the abilities and actual experience that the therapist has to offer.
Need to Be Admired: Because a narcissist contains no emotions, they need to constantly be reminded of how important they are. They seek compliments and admiration, and this can be harmful to others because it can become exhausting. You can deliver a compliment to them, but two minutes later they will bring up another accomplishment and expect praise once again.
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