What makes a person sexually attractive to you?
There is no denying that physical features do play a huge role in increasing the sexual appeal of a person but that isn’t the only thing that matters.
According to Google, sexy is something which is very sexually exciting or attractive. In other words, something that is very appealing. This appeal is abstract in nature and can be of any kind.
Different people find different features sexy.
But to list down a few, here are the 8 special characteristics which almost every person all around the world finds to be sexually attractive:
1. Generosity wins always
A lot of people have agreed that generosity is one of the most attractive features. This gesture is attractive because it shows the kind of person you are from within. Someone who is not only good to you but is very kind and humble towards everyone is honestly, an instant turn on. Everyone is attracted to humble people. In 2013, a study proved that people who are helpful in nature are attractive because they possess good genes and have the willingness to help people around them. It also stated that men and women who were generous towards others were found to be more attractive than the ones who had an unwelcoming attitude.
2. Meaningful Deep conversations and talks are the sexiest
In this generation most conversations go like – ‘Hey’ ‘hi’ ‘what’s up’ ‘nm’ and that’s it. The conversation starts to fade in a couple of messages and that is why people don’t bond. The scenario is almost the same when two people are right in front of each other too. We focus more on our phones than on the person sitting right in front of us. Someone who strikes an interesting conversation and carves their way into a deep meaningful conversation is extremely sexy. It shows the willingness to know the other person and makes them feel special. It is not constant talking that brings two people close. It’s the quality of conversation that defines the depth of the relationship two people share. Also, talking about personal emotions helps in strengthening bonds between two people.
3. Humor is a must
It is ideally said that manners matter, good looks are a bonus but humor is a must. Those days are gone when only girls would find humor attractive. The tables have turned. Men in our times are also highly attracted to women with good sense of humor. Cracking a few puns here and there can help in keeping the conversation going on and also make it interesting. Most people don’t really know this, but good humor isn’t easy. So when you say something that’s witty and makes someone jaw hurt due to excessive laughing, we assure you, you’re already one of their favorite people to be around.
4. Confidence is the key
Just like humour, confidence is adored by both genders. It is the best accessory one can wear. The confidence to take charge is an instant turn on to men and women as the other person feels more secure around them. In men, this confidence is often presented through actions whereas in women; confidence is often presented in emotional stability. Confidence is the key because a confident person is fully aware of his or her actions. They aren’t in doubt and have a clear picture of what they want and take authority of it. This is the trait which charms people around them.
5. Being wanted is sexy
According to Dr Aron, if you ask people about their experience of falling in love, about 90% will say that it was when discovered that the other person liked them. Being wanted is attractive. If you genuinely like someone, you should let them know about it. When someone knows that you are interested in them, they are likely to see you in a different light. It doesn’t necessarily mean that they will like you back but they indeed will focus on your actions around them a little more.
6. Emotional expressiveness
No. We aren’t telling you to spill yourself in front of every random person. When you find someone you gel with, open up in front of them emotionally. This is very attractive as it makes the person feel like you choose to trust them in a world full of people.
7. Self Awareness is cool
Someone who is aware of their strength and weakness is sexy. They know what they want in life and they won’t settle for anything less. This also saved a lot of time and tension of misunderstandings because they are pretty vocal about their wants.
8. How they make others feel Sexy Around them
Most of us fall in love with the way a person makes us feel about ourselves. Someone who makes others feel brilliant around them this is sexy as hell. The person feels good around you this way and is highly attracted to you.

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